Topic as Submitted - What makes a man or woman a great sex partner?
Today's topic will be the shortest in the history of my blog.
It depends on what you like, what your partner likes, what you both like and what you are both willing to do.
A sexual relationship is often an extension of a physical or emotional connection to a person. For women, it is usually the emotional, for which the get into her head before you get into her bed rule was invented. And for men it is usually the physical for which lingerie and high heels among other things were created. This is not always the case but it assist in my explanation.
As humans we rely on our senses for everyday task and sex is no exception. Knowing which of the senses you and your partner like will assist you in being "the best you can be". Are you visual or auditory creatures? How can you mix your likes with theirs to create a merge that pleases you both? Obviously if one person is happy and the other is not, the latter will not be returning.
ANY interaction with another human being requires some form of communication. (Work, school, the gym, etc...) you either have to TALK to the person about what you want/like/prefer or in the case of this topic, find a way to SHOW them. The less bossy the better, unless they like bossy (some people do).
Give and take and the willingness to try something new and unorthodox will always win you points. But never force yourself into doing what feels unnatural or uncomfortable, because it will create tension and therefore defeat the purpose.
I do not know if the "partner" in this case is a long time partner or one night fling. If it is a one night fling I guess you probably won't care that they aren't so good.
To each his own and that applies to both men and women. I can't tell you what makes a good partner for anyone else but myself - and that, of course, I won't tell you.
Have a great day every one!!
Bisous!!xoxo
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